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5 Ways to Make Motherhood Less Isolating

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Motherhood we know can be lonely, challenging and sometimes isolating, particularly for those who feel like they do not have a community behind them. Raising a child, or children, does truly take a village and it can be difficult for mothers who don’t feel like they have adequate support, not only physically but emotionally and socially. Finding the right community can help make your motherhood experience positive and connected. Here are a few ways you can find a community near you.

Villagehood: The App

A new movement called Villagehood is about to change that, helping mums connect for activities, support and genuine friendship. Designed to bring local mums (and their bubs) together for connection, conversation and fun. Founded by Brittany Bloomer, the idea was born from her own experience of loneliness in early motherhood.

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Join a mother’s group

Joining a mothers group right off the back of having your baby might sound like another thing to add onto your mental load and to do list however, it can be a positive experience in fostering and navigating this new path that you are on in motherhood. Connecting with mums who not only live in your area however have a baby the same age as yours, can even set you up for long lasting friendships.

Community playgroups

It is quite common to find playgroups in and around local communities. These playgroups typically run once a week and may allow your child to have a positive social interaction with other children and provides the opportunity for you to meet some mums who may live near you and form connections this way.

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Photo by Ksenia Chernaya

Co-Curricular activities

If your child is old enough to join a sport or dance club, this can be a great way to meet new mothers who’s children have similar interest to yours. Usually these are term commitment activities so seeing the same people once a week can help build relationships that you might be able to foster outside of the activity once its wrapped up.

Don’t shy away from playground chatter

One of the easiest ways to meet other mums is by simply heading off to your local playground. Putting yourself out there, making small talk and introducing yourself to other mums at the playground can be a great way to meet new people and connect with other mothers in the area. Whilst it might seem daunting to approach people, if you find yourself in a situation where you can make some chatter, give it a go! 

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