Relationships

Love and Learn with a Modern Healthy Relationship

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A modern healthy relationship relies on various understandings and mutual respect, much like any other. But how can you address these and move forward with each other? From making time for each other to even taking time apart, here are some solid relationship suggestions.

Legal Agreements for Boundaries and Trust

A foundational part of a modern relationship often comes with legal agreements. With gender norms no longer applied today, women have much control over their own property and money. Indeed, men must also maintain what is theirs. Money, property, and inheritance are complex subjects but no less critical. Fortunately, there are expert lawyers who can help address issues of personal property in relationships, estate management, and separation agreements.

Make Time for Each Other

With the legal stuff out of the way, let’s focus on the more human side of a relationship. No relationship lasts, in any healthy way at least, when there is no time for each other. Whether it’s one partner or both, being absent in a relationship creates too much negativity over time. It is critical that you schedule time to work on building something special, and it is worth it for both. Addressing the work-life balance also comes into play, as no relationship should be one-sided.

A Modern Healthy Relationship Through Support

One of the tenets of a healthy relationship is support. It is believed that 25% of women and 33% of men are in a bad relationship. A commonly cited issue is a lack of support. This ranges from physical and mental health to deeply personal issues such as struggling with self expression. Today, more people are much more open about their LQBTQ+ status and the kinds of relationships they want. Support for each other through these vital issues provides a stable foundation.

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Schedule Time Apart

This might sound strange given that spending time together is a cornerstone of a healthy relationship. But spending time apart is just as important. Not every couple loves the same things and there are always habits and behaviours that annoy us. No matter how much we love someone! Time apart is a healthy way to deal with relationship issues when pressure builds. It doesn’t mean separation, and it doesn’t have to be for long. An evening alone can be enough.

Understanding Physical Intimacy

Okay, now for the big one! Physical intimacy, is one of the most controversial parts of any relationship. Everyone is different when it comes to intimacy, and we all have different likes and dislikes. A one-sided relationship is not fair, and it generally doesn’t work in the long-term. However, discussion about roles, boundaries, and desires is much more healthy than dominance and control. Working on the intimate side of things contributes to a healthier partnership.

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Making legal agreements about issues such as money and property helps form a modern healthy relationship. Of course, supporting each other through life’s problems is a foundation for a strong partnership. But it also helps to discuss everything related to intimacy in an honest manner.

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